From corporate burnout to freelance dad - year 1 reflection

Apr 6·1 min read

Left my job 12 months ago making 180k a year because I was barely seeing my kids. Took the leap into freelance consulting. Income is probably 40% of what it was but my calendar is actually mine now. I coach my son's little league team, I'm home for school pickups, and I don't have that knot in my stomach anymore. Financially it's tight some months but I gained my life back. Worth every penny I lost.

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Comments(6)

RRob H.RegularApr 8

Real question though - do you miss the structure or the paycheck more? I work nights as a nurse and I'm envious of dads who can make these changes, but I also know I need that steady income. What made the leap possible for you?

RRyanRegularApr 7

This is the dream, man. How are you managing income-wise? That's always the thing that scares me about making that jump.

AAlexRegularApr 6

This hits home. Spent too many years in a job where I saw my kids sleeping more than awake. How long did it take before the freelance stuff stabilized enough to feel like a real decision?

MMike R.RegularApr 6

This is gutsy and I respect it. 180k is serious money. How's the financial side treating you so far? I've thought about something similar but haven't pulled the trigger because I'm scared of the money aspect.

LLucas M.RegularApr 6

A year in is still early but I'm guessing you're seeing your kids way more than you used to. That's the whole point right? Curious what your biggest surprise has been so far with the freelance lifestyle.

CChris M.RegularApr 7

180k is serious money to walk away from. Respect. Are you finding you actually have time with the kids now or are you just swapping one stress for another?