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From solo road trips to backseat negotiations

13h ago1 min read

Before kids I was that guy who would just gas up and drive 8 hours on a whim, stopping wherever looked interesting. Now a 20 minute drive to the park involves three snack requests, a diaper blowout, and explaining why we can't just turn around and go home because I forgot to download the Bluey episode they wanted. I miss the spontaneity like crazy but honestly the chaos has its own weird rhythm. Wouldn't trade it but man those quiet drives hit different.

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VVincentNew Dadjust now

The backseat negotiations are real. My oldest just learned to negotiate which route we take to soccer practice. He's 8 and already has opinions about everything. Spontaneous is basically dead for us now too but I wouldn't trade it.

IIan P.Regular13h ago

Man, those backseat negotiations are something else. I miss those spontaneous 8 hour drives, but honestly watching my kids experience new places with me beats it every time.

VVictor R.New Dad13h ago

The 20 minute drive feels like a mission now with all the snacks and entertainment needed, but that's just parenthood man. Different adventures, still worth it.

JJames M.New Dad12h ago

Co-parenting means I treasure those road trips with my kids even more now. It's less about the whim and more about the memory, and that's actually better.

MMatt R.New Dadjust now

Man I feel this so hard. I used to be the same way before Justin and Emma came along. Now a road trip means packing 47 different snacks, negotiating which movie we're watching, and stopping every 90 minutes for bathroom breaks. But honestly? Some of those car conversations have been pretty great even if they're not the same vibe.

PPaulNew Dadjust now

This hits different when you've got kids. I still miss just hopping in the car with nowhere to be, but now when we do road trips they're actually memories instead of just me listening to podcasts alone. Different but not worse I guess.