Getting divorced made me realize I was depressed for years

23h ago1 min read

Not gonna lie the divorce sucked and was painful but looking back now I realize I was genuinely depressed in that marriage for a long time. Just going through motions, barely smiling, everything felt heavy. Now that I have my own place and time for myself I feel like I can actually breathe. Ive started running again, hanging out with friends, dating feels exciting instead of terrifying. My kids are actually seeing a happier version of me which I think is better for them than staying in a bad situation. Wish I had figured this out sooner but better late than never I guess.

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SSteve Q.Regular23h ago

Depression sneaks up on you like that sometimes, especially when you're in the thick of it. Sounds like you're in a better headspace now though, and that's what matters.

GGregoryNew Dad22h ago

Man, that's a real realization to have. Glad you're on the other side of it now and can see things clearly. Takes guts to admit that to yourself.

RRick M.Regular9h ago

This hits home. I went through something similar and didn't realize I was depressed until things changed. Divorce is brutal but sometimes it's the wake up call we need. How are you doing with it now?

MMikeRegular7h ago

I'm really glad you figured this out. Depression is sneaky because you just think that's how life is supposed to feel. The fact that you can look back and see it now is huge for your kids - they get a healthier dad going forward.

KKyleRegular3h ago

Real talk right here. So many people go through divorce thinking it's the problem when really the depression was the problem all along. Good on you for seeing it clearly.

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