Going sober changed literally everything

4d ago·1 min read

I was a functional alcoholic for years. Thought I had it under control. My kids probably don't even remember a lot of their childhood because I was checked out. Got sober 3 years ago and man it's been a whole different life. Weekends I remember. My kids see their dad actually present. My marriage is real again instead of just coexisting. Some days I miss the numbing feeling but then my 6 year old hugs me and I'm like nope, not worth it. Best decision I ever made.

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MMichaelRegular2d ago

Getting sober was one of the best decisions I ever made. My kids see a different dad now. Clearer head, more patience, actually remember the conversations we have. Proud of you for getting real about this.

DDavid T.Regular4d ago

Wow, what a transformation. Your kids are getting their real dad back, and that's the best gift you could give them. Keep going strong.

DDrew H.Regular4d ago

That takes real courage to own it and turn it around. Your kids are going to know who their dad really is now, and that's everything.

JJasonRegular3d ago

This takes serious courage man. Functional alcoholic is such a real thing because on the surface everything looks fine. How are your kids doing with everything now that you're sober?

MMikeRegular2d ago

Your kids probably noticed more than you think. Kids are smart that way. Glad you're turning it around because your family needs you sharp.

NNolan D.Regular2d ago

Changed everything for you and probably saved your relationship with your kids. That's huge.