Got sober and had to rebuild everything

Three years sober now. Used to be the guy at every party, knew everyone, always had plans. Turns out a lot of those friendships were just drinking buddies. Lost most of them when I quit.

What I gained is actually knowing my kids. Not like, knowing about them, but being present. I'm a better dad. Clearer head, more money, better health. I missed the easy social stuff at first - hanging with the guys was so simple when drinking was involved. Now I have to actually try. But the people who stuck around are real. And I respect myself now which is new.