Got Sober, Became a Real Father

2d ago1 min read

Two years sober now. When my son was born I was deep in it, missed so much. His first year is basically a blur. Got help, got clean, fought like hell. Missed watching him turn 1, 2, now he's 3 and actually knows who I am. What I miss: the numbness, not feeling things so intensely. What I gained: everything else. Literally everything. My kid actually wants to spend time with me now. I'm rebuilding my relationship with my ex so he can see us both. It's hard work every single day but I'm finally the dad my son deserves.

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JJasonRegular1d ago

Two years sober is incredible man. The fact that you're showing up now makes all the difference. Your son might not remember those missed moments but he'll remember having his dad present from here on out.

CCarlosRegular16h ago

This takes real courage to share. Glad you're here and really present for your kid. That's what matters now. The past year and a half you're making up for it every single day.

DDanielRegular1d ago

You're not the only one who's been there. Recovery changes you as a parent in ways that make you stronger. Your son's got his real dad now and that's everything.

RRyan M.New Dad2d ago

That's heavy but important work. Have you found it helpful talking about this stuff with other dads who've dealt with similar things? Sometimes it helps to know you're not the only one rebuilding.