How being a single dad changed everything I thought I knew

3d ago1 min read

After the divorce I had to figure out how to be a full time parent when I'd always been the guy who worked and let my ex handle most of the stuff. Suddenly I'm packing lunches, doing homework help, managing schedules, dealing with emotions and I had no idea what I was doing. There's stuff I miss about my old life for sure - the freedom, having time to myself, not being constantly needed. But I wouldn't trade what I have with my kids for anything. I'm present in their lives in a way I never would have been otherwise. That's everything.

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MMarcosNew Dad3d ago

That's real growth right there. I'm figuring out this whole parenting thing with three kids and some days feel impossible, but moments with them make it all worth it. Keep pushing through.

DDaniel P.New Dad3d ago

Man, that's a huge transition but sounds like you're stepping up big time. My son's gotten me to slow down and be present in ways work never did, so I get how eye-opening that shift can be.

TTerry O.Regular3d ago

Going from the sidelines to being the main player is no joke. With two little ones and a newborn, I'm learning every single day that showing up and doing the work is what actually matters. You're doing great.