How being divorced changed my relationship with my dad

2w ago1 min read

Going through the separation made me realize how much my own parents' divorce affected me and how different I wanted to be. Had some real conversations with my dad about it and we're actually closer now. He validates how hard co-parenting is instead of just saying I should suck it up. I think he finally understands why I'm so committed to staying involved with my kids and not being the absent parent he was. Wild how hitting rock bottom professionally and personally can actually repair family stuff.

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PPedroRegular2w ago

I went through something similar and it made me committed to being the dad my parents weren't when they were fighting. If you ever want to talk about breaking the cycle, I'm here.

DDerekNew Dad2w ago

The fact that you're thinking this deeply about it shows you're already being a better example for your kids. That's what matters.

AAdam K.New Dad2w ago

This realization is huge man. Understanding how your own parents' split shaped you helps you show up differently for your kids. That's real growth.

MMike R.New Dad2w ago

Man, going through a separation is rough but it sounds like it gave you some clarity on how you want to show up differently. That takes a lot of awareness.

TTyler H.Regular2w ago

That's really heavy stuff but good on you for having those conversations with your dad. Breaking that cycle is hard work and it sounds like you're being intentional about it.