I miss having free time but I wouldnt change it for anything
Real talk for a second. Before kids I could just hang out with my buddies whenever, sleep in, do whatever I wanted. Now I cant remember the last time I slept past 6am. My free time is basically nonexistent. Sometimes I do miss just being able to chill without someone needing something. But then my 5 year old tells me Im his best friend and all that stuff just goes away. Its a totally different version of me now. Less selfish probably. Def more tired though haha.
Real talk for real. Some days I'm exhausted and miss sleeping past 6am without tiny humans jumping on me. But then my daughter does something new or we have a moment together and I get why people say this is the best part of life.
The sleep-in part especially gets me. Not having that freedom is real. But hanging out with the buddies now means talking about kids and mortgages anyway so like, we all gave up the same thing.