Left corporate job after 12 years to stay home with kids
I was a manager. Meetings, conference calls, the whole thing. Defined myself by my job title and the paycheck. My wife made more anyway so we did the math and I tapped out.
First month was weird. Like losing my identity. Now I'm the guy who knows the teachers' names and the schedule and where the good parks are. I miss the adult conversation and honestly the validation of being good at my job. But I don't miss the stress. The trade offs are real though. Less money, no title, nobody asks what I do anymore because the answer is just 'dad.' Some days that's exactly what I need to hear.
This took guts. The financial part is one thing but the identity thing you mentioned is real. Are you finding that you're getting more quality time with the kids now?