Lost 60lbs since becoming a dad
Realized I couldn't keep up with my kids at the park. Started eating better, going to the gym early before work. Wife's more attracted to me, I feel better, my kids see me exercising which is cool. Miss being able to eat whatever I wanted without feeling guilty but the trade off is worth it. My identity went from 'the lazy guy' to 'the fit dad' and it's wild how much that changed me mentally.
60lbs is huge congrats. How long did it take you to get there? I'm in a similar boat right now and could use some motivation that it's actually doable with the dad schedule.