Miss my old hobbies but found something better
Used to spend every weekend on my motorcycle or at the gym. Havent been on the bike in like three years. Started staying home more after my daughter was born and honestly I thought I'd resent it. Instead I started building stuff with my son in the garage. Its slower. Its messier. We make a lot of mistakes. But man I look forward to Saturday mornings now in a way I never did before. Different life. Better life.
The gym thing I get. I used to be at the gym 5 days a week before the kids came. Now I'm doing YouTube workouts at 5am before everyone wakes up. Not the same vibe but it keeps me sane. Maybe there's a middle ground for you?