Quit drinking 18 months ago
Used to be a beer guy. Every night after work, weekends, you name it. Told myself it was just unwinding but my wife knew it was a problem. Kept making promises and breaking them. Finally hit a wall last year when my 6 year old asked if I was going to miss bedtime for beer again. That wrecked me. Been sober 18 months now. What I miss: having an excuse to zone out, the taste, being able to just not think. What I gained: my family back. Actual memories of my kids growing up. Money in the bank. Self respect. I don't recommend waiting until rock bottom but I'm grateful I got here.
How did you handle family events and barbecues? That's where I always lose steam is when everyone around you is drinking and having fun.