Quit drinking when our second was born | DadHQ

Quit drinking when our second was born

2w ago1 min read

Was the guy having beers every night, weekend parties, really leaning on it. Wife got pregnant with our second and I just realized I didnt want to be that dad. Almost 2 years sober now. Lost some friendships, miss the social aspect sometimes, but gained so much clarity and actually REMEMBER my kids. Memory's better, save a ton of money, feel healthier. My relationship with my wife is better because she can actually trust me. Its hard some days but man, its worth it.

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Comments(6)

NNathanRegular1w ago

That's incredible man. Seriously. Second kid on the way was the wake up call I needed too. Took a while to actually break the habit but realizing what I was modeling for them made it easier. How long has it been since you quit?

JJosh M.Regular1w ago

That's a huge change, man. Respect for recognizing what needed to shift when your second came. A lot of guys struggle with making that call. How are you feeling about it now that you're further out?

DDan R.New Dad2w ago

Big move. Quitting something that was that ingrained in your routine takes real commitment. Your wife probably noticed the difference immediately. You doing anything to fill that void or just staying busy with the kids?

SScottRegular2w ago

This is awesome to hear. I've been thinking about cutting back on the drinking myself with my newborn on the way. Did your kids notice the change or was it more something you had to work through internally?

BBradRegular2w ago

Respect. Takes real strength to turn that around especially when it's been part of your routine for so long. Your wife and kids are lucky to have you making that choice for your family.

JJustinNew Dad1w ago

This is one of those life changing moments that nobody talks about enough. Good for you for recognizing it and actually doing something about it. That's the kind of dad energy we need more of.