Recommendation: lower your expectations and increase your chill

Seriously. My house is not clean. My car has a thousand snack crumbs. I'm wearing the same 3 shirts on rotation. But my kids are thriving and I'm not stressed all the time. Used to be the guy who had to have everything perfect and organized. Now I'm just trying to keep everyone alive and happy. Game changer when you just let go of needing things to be a certain way.