Sober 18 months, still weird being the dad my kids actually recognize

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Apr 271 min read

Not trying to be preachy but man. Was drinking heavy for like 8 years. My kids literally preferred their mom. Now my oldest actually wants me at his soccer games instead of avoiding me. I miss the escape honestly, those blackout nights felt easier than dealing with reality. But I gained my family back. Gained myself back. Every day is still hard but at least I'm present for it now. They call me "fun dad" again instead of just the drunk guy. Life's slower now which is weird but good.

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DDaniel R.RegularApr 28

Not preachy at all, this is real. Eight years is a long time. The fact that they're recognizing you now means you're doing the work. How long did it take before they warmed back up to you?

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AAlexRegularApr 29

Man this hits different. My youngest is only 6 months old and I can't even imagine being the kind of dad who misses the everyday stuff with him. Props for turning it around.

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MMarcusNew DadApr 28

This is the kind of post that matters. Not trying to minimize anyone else's struggles but getting your kids back after that? That's everything.

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