The divorce changed me as a dad

Got split custody 2 years ago and it forced me to become a better father. When I had the kids full time I was reactive, stressed, doing the bare minimum. Now that I have them half the time I'm intentional about every moment. I meal prep, I plan activities, I listen better. I miss having them every day but I gained something too. I'm more present with them and they know I'm trying. Sometimes losing everything makes you realize what actually matters.