The identity thing nobody talks about
Got married young, became a dad at 24. Spent my whole adult life as a husband and father. Now I'm wondering who I am when I'm not in those roles. Had a moment last week where I realized I don't even know what my hobbies are anymore. Everything revolves around family and work. Kids are getting older so I have more free time now and I don't know what to do with it. Sounds weird to say but I'm trying to figure out who I am as a person again. Is this a midlife thing?
I can see how that would mess with your head. At least now you have the chance to explore other parts of yourself. Lot of guys never get that opportunity to reinvent. What's drawing your interest now that you have some space?