The moment I realized I was a different person

Nov 30·1 min read

So last week my buddy texted inviting me to Vegas for his bachelor party. Old me would've been packed in 10 minutes. New me? I asked about the dates, thought about logistics, what my daughter would do, and honestly just... didn't want to go. Then I saw his text chain with other guys saying I'd changed. And you know what? He's right. But I'm good with it now.

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RRich B.RegularNov 30

This right here. That's growth man. Old me would've been gone without a second thought too. New me realizes one night away hits different when you've got little ones depending on you.

TTony V.RegularNov 30

This is what nobody tells you about fatherhood. You don't lose yourself, you just become a different version that's probably more solid than before.

TTony L.RegularDec 2

Vegas would've been sick but also your daughter needs you stable and present. The fact that you thought about logistics instead of just reacting says everything.

CChris T.RegularDec 2

I had this exact moment when my son was born. It's wild how your brain just shifts. Not saying old you was bad, just saying new you is better.

IIsaac T.RegularDec 1

What did you end up doing? Did you go or stay home?