The Selfishness Exit
I was genuinely selfish before becoming a dad. Career focused, relationships were secondary, money was everything. Fatherhood basically rewired my brain. Everything I do now has them in the background. Some days I miss the simplicity of just thinking about myself but mostly I realize how empty that actually was. Sounds cliche but your priorities just shift completely when you're responsible for tiny humans.
This hits different when you have kids. Suddenly all those selfish choices feel pretty hollow. The best part is realizing that being present for your kids is actually way more fulfilling than any of that stuff was.