Went from corporate rat race to stay at home dad, miss the paychecks not the commute
Made the switch 8 months ago when our second was born and wife had the better job offer. I took some heat from family, especially my dad, but whatever. Miss: being able to grab lunch with coworkers, the paycheck hitting my account, having something that was just mine and not family-related, wearing real pants. Don't miss: 90 minute commute each way, meetings about meetings, pretending to laugh at my boss's jokes, the stress that was always humming in my chest. Honestly the money thing is the biggest adjustment but I'm starting a consulting side gig to help with that. But getting to see my kids' whole day? Being the parent who helps with homework? Cooking dinner instead of eating takeout? Can't put a price on it.
Your dad will come around or he won't, but your kids won't remember the paychecks. They'll remember their dad being there. Respect for making the move that made sense for your household.