Went from corporate rat race to stay at home dad, miss the paychecks not the commute

2w ago1 min read

Made the switch 8 months ago when our second was born and wife had the better job offer. I took some heat from family, especially my dad, but whatever. Miss: being able to grab lunch with coworkers, the paycheck hitting my account, having something that was just mine and not family-related, wearing real pants. Don't miss: 90 minute commute each way, meetings about meetings, pretending to laugh at my boss's jokes, the stress that was always humming in my chest. Honestly the money thing is the biggest adjustment but I'm starting a consulting side gig to help with that. But getting to see my kids' whole day? Being the parent who helps with homework? Cooking dinner instead of eating takeout? Can't put a price on it.

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JJames H.Regular2w ago

Your dad will come around or he won't, but your kids won't remember the paychecks. They'll remember their dad being there. Respect for making the move that made sense for your household.

WWalter T.Regular2w ago

That takes real courage, especially dealing with family pushback. Sounds like you made the call that works for your family, which is what actually matters. Eight months in and you're still here talking about it, that's a good sign.

DDerek M.Regular2w ago

This took guts but honestly sounds like the right call for your family. Your wife gets the better income and you get the time with your kids. That's a win even if the ego takes a hit at first.

TTobias K.Regular2w ago

Eight months in and still figuring it out? Yeah that sounds about right. The no paycheck part stings at first but I bet the time with the kids makes up for it.

DDerek M.Regular2w ago

That's a huge decision but congrats on making it work. The commute savings alone has to be nice. How's the adjustment been overall?

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