Went from Workaholic to Actually Being Present

Biggest wake up call was my son asking me why I didn't come to his soccer game. I MISSED it because of a meeting that didn't even matter in the end. That was 18 months ago. Changed my whole perspective. Started saying no to stuff, delegating more, leaving work at work. Yeah I make less money now but my kids actually know their dad. My marriage got better too, wife says she has a partner again instead of just a roommate who pays bills. Lost some friends who only knew corporate me. Gained actual peace. Still working on not feeling guilty about not grinding 60 hour weeks but getting there.