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Went from working 60 hours a week to actually knowing my kids

3w ago·1 min read

I was that guy. Always grinding, always on my phone during dinner, missed my daughter's soccer games. Had a health scare last year that made me rethink everything. Negotiated a remote position with better hours. Been 8 months now and my relationship with my kids is completely different. They actually want to hang out with me. My marriage got better too. Miss the ego boost of being the high performer at work but nothing compares to what I gained.

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BBrandonNew Dad3w ago

That health scare hits different man. I'm co-parenting three kids across two houses and I've learned the hard way that being present matters way more than grinding yourself into the ground. Glad you're getting those soccer games in now.

TTyler R.New Dad3w ago

This is real. I went through something similar and realized my kids just wanted me at dinner, not distracted. Taco Tuesdays are sacred in this house now and I'm actually there for them.

MMike P.New Dad3w ago

This is exactly where I am right now trying to get to. Still doing 50+ hours a week and my kids know it. How did you make the switch? Did you take a pay cut or find a different job?

KKevinRegular3w ago

The phone at dinner thing hits different when you realize your kid noticed you weren't there. Glad you're out of that grind now. Honestly, missing those soccer games is something you can never get back.

RRyan P.New Dad3w ago

This gives me hope man. I've been the 60 hour guy for years and my daughter's just starting sports. Want to actually show up this time around.