What I miss most about being single

Got married 4 years ago and we have 2 kids now. Don't get me wrong, best decision ever. But man do I miss sleeping in. Just sleeping until like 10am on a Saturday without someone needing something. I miss spontaneous decisions like hey let's go to that bar tonight. Now everything is planned 2 weeks in advance. I miss my friends too. Seems like the crew doesn't get together anymore because we're all spread out dealing with our own families.