Celebrating wins with coparenting
Wanted to post something positive for once. My ex and I split 3 years ago and man those first two years were rough. We barely spoke without arguing. But we committed to putting the kids first and actually talking about stuff. Now we coordinate on discipline, birthday parties, school stuff without drama. Last weekend she texted asking if I could switch weeks because her mom was visiting and I said yes no problem. A year ago that would've turned into a fight. It takes work but coparenting respectfully is possible. Gives me hope for the kids.
That's awesome man. Those first couple years after the split are brutal, but it sounds like you and your ex found your way to something good. That's huge for the kids.