Co parent communication is impossible
We're supposed to communicate through an app but she still texts me random stuff and calls with drama. When I try to keep things on the app for a record she gets mad and says I'm b
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Navigating custody, handoffs, and co-parent communication.
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We're supposed to communicate through an app but she still texts me random stuff and calls with drama. When I try to keep things on the app for a record she gets mad and says I'm b
This is our second Christmas split and I'm trying to make it work but man it sucks. Kids at their mom's on actual Christmas morning, at my place after. How do you guys handle it? A
My ex moved everything around last minute and now I don't have the kids during the week we were supposed to go clothes shopping for school. We agreed on a pretty standard 50/50 spl
My daughter came back from her mom's house and said her mom told her I don't care about her because I missed one soccer game. I DID care, I had work I literally couldn't get out of
Not trying to start drama but this is the second time. I'm not saying she's a bad parent but like how do you not notice? I had to treat my whole house and deal with his school call
This is the third week in a row. Says she has work stuff come up and can I pick up an hour earlier. Thing is I work too and I'm scrambling to rearrange everything. How do I set a b
She's been paying late or short every month for the past 6 months. Says money is tight but her Instagram shows her on vacation last month. My lawyer says I have a case but I don't
Every Monday and Wednesday I pick up the kids at 6pm. Mom has been showing up between 6:15 and 6:45 the last 4 times. I have to stay late at work and it throws off my whole schedul
After 2 years of separation, the judge signed off on everything this morning. We have joint custody and a fair split worked out. But my kids are 9 and 7 and I'm sitting here not kn
We have the kids 50/50 on alternating weeks. Works great on paper but every other week she texts asking to swap days because of her work stuff or her new boyfriend's plans. I work
So I got promoted which is great but the hours are more unpredictable now. My kids are with me Mon-Thurs and I'm worried I won't be able to pick them up from school on time some da
Man what a journey. Went through 3 different lawyers, mediation fell apart twice, and my ex kept changing demands at the last minute. But we finally signed off on 50/50 custody wit
My 6 year old asked me yesterday why we don't all live together. Broke my heart. I tried explaining it in a way kids could understand but honestly I don't know if I did it right. M
Found out from my 9 year old that mom told them I left because I didnt love them enough. I never said anything bad about her to them, I just explained that sometimes grown ups grow
So my ex got a new job offer across the country and wants to move with the kids. We share 50/50 custody and she says there's no way I can make it work there financially or job wise
Been through the ringer the last couple years with the divorce and custody battles but I think we finally turned a corner. My ex and I actually communicate now without it being hos
This is the third time in 6 weeks that she's canceled my weekend with the kids because of some work thing or new boyfriend plans. Meanwhile Im blocking out my whole schedule, somet
Started using one of those co-parenting apps to communicate with my ex instead of texts and it's been way better honestly. Everything is documented, no arguments about who said wha
My ex keeps wanting to swap weekends last minute without asking first, just telling me after the fact. Our agreement clearly says we need to communicate changes in advance. I've be
Been doing week on week off with my two kids for 8 months now and I'm burnt out. Don't get me wrong, I love having them but the constant switching between house setups, packing, un