Finally got a stable schedule working
After 8 months of back and forth, my ex and I agreed on a 50/50 split that actually works for both our jobs. Took a lot of conversations with our mediator but we nailed it down. Kids are on a routine now and honestly they seem happier. Even my ex admitted things are better when we're not fighting about dates all the time. Wanted to post this because I know a lot of you guys are still in the thick of it. It does get better.
Dude, that's huge. Getting to 50/50 that actually works with both your schedules is no joke. Takes real maturity from both sides to make that happen. Your kids are gonna thrive with that kind of stability.