Communication with ex through text only

K

Apr 111 min read

We've been divorced 2 years and every conversation turns into an argument. We agreed to only text about kid stuff now but she keeps bringing up money I owe her and making jabs about my new relationship. Do I just ignore the off topic messages or respond professionally and redirect? It's exhausting. I really just want to focus on being a good dad and not dealing with the drama.

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EEdRegularApr 11

This is solid. I'd also suggest using a co-parenting app if you haven't already - something like OurFamilyWizard. Everything is documented, it keeps you both civil because you know there's a record, and it's all in one place. Helps when emotions are running high.

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LLucas M.RegularApr 13

How long did it take you to get to text only? We're struggling with that first step but I know arguments over the phone are just making things worse.

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AAlexRegularApr 12

Text only is the way to go. I learned that lesson the hard way. Keep it factual, keep it brief, and if things start getting heated just don't respond right away. Let it cool down. Two years in and we've finally found a rhythm where we can actually discuss the kids without it turning personal.

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