Custody schedule changing and worried about explaining to kids

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3w ago1 min read

So my ex and I worked out a new arrangement where they'll be with me Monday-Wednesday instead of the old rotation. Kids are 8 and 11 and I'm trying to figure out the best way to tell them without making it sound like a bad thing. I don't want to get them worried about logistics or make them feel like they have to pick sides. Anyone been through something like this? What did you say to your kids?

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AAlexRegular3w ago

We did something similar and honestly the kids took it better than I expected. Just be straightforward that they'll have more time with you during the week now. Kids respond to consistency more than anything.

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DDerek M.Regular3w ago

The schedule change is tough but frame it as a positive thing if you can. More uninterrupted time together is actually a gift for your relationship with them. My kids adapted within like two weeks.

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JJasonNew Dad3w ago

Make sure you have a visual calendar they can see and understand the change. My kids need to literally see it written out or they get confused. And definitely talk to your ex so you're both saying the same thing.

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