Custody schedule changing and worried about explaining to kids
So my ex and I worked out a new arrangement where they'll be with me Monday-Wednesday instead of the old rotation. Kids are 8 and 11 and I'm trying to figure out the best way to tell them without making it sound like a bad thing. I don't want to get them worried about logistics or make them feel like they have to pick sides. Anyone been through something like this? What did you say to your kids?
We did something similar and honestly the kids took it better than I expected. Just be straightforward that they'll have more time with you during the week now. Kids respond to consistency more than anything.