Custody schedule making me miss stuff
So my ex and I have been doing week on week off for about 8 months now and it's killing me. I missed my son's baseball game last Thursday because it was her week and she didn't mention it was happening. When I asked her about it she said 'I thought you knew' but how would I know if you don't tell me? Is this normal? Should I be asking for a different arrangement that includes a shared calendar or something?
That's got to be tough. Eight months is long enough that you'd think it would get easier but it sounds like it's getting harder. What kind of stuff are you missing? Because depending on what it is, maybe there's a way to work around it.