Custody schedule working but dreading holiday handoffs
Been divorced for 2 years now, 50/50 custody with my ex. Everything's smooth during the regular week but man, holiday transitions are getting harder. My 7 and 10 year old get confused about where they're supposed to be on certain days and my ex keeps changing what time is best for pickup. Anyone else dealing with this? Thinking about suggesting we nail down specific holiday schedules in writing so there's no room for confusion. The kids shouldn't have to stress about where they're going on Christmas morning.
This is the hardest part of co-parenting honestly. Regular weeks are fine but holidays feel like you're splitting the actual meaning of the day. Have you and your ex talked about maybe adjusting the schedule for major holidays, or are you trying to stick with the 50/50?