Custody swap logistics - am I overthinking this?
So my ex and I do the Wednesday evening / every other weekend thing, and I'm wondering if I should be making the pickups happen at a neutral location instead of her place. Right now I just go to the house (we live 15 mins apart in Portland), grab the kids, and go. My new girlfriend thinks it's weird that I'm going inside sometimes to wait. My ex seems fine with it - we're not hostile or anything, just... done. But is this a red flag situation? My custody agreement doesn't specify where handoffs happen. Feels silly to change it if nobody's uncomfortable but also don't want to make things messier.
Interesting that girlfriend's concern gets listed before what your EX thinks. What does she think about the pickups?