Custody swap on Halloween - how do you guys handle it?
So my ex and I have 50/50 with the kids (ages 6 and 9) and Halloween falls on my ex's night this year. The kids are already asking if they can trick-or-treat with me instead. I don't want to be that dad who creates drama, but I also hate missing out on this stuff. Last year we did a split schedule but the kids were confused about which house to go to.
Has anyone figured out a good system for holidays that aren't officially "yours"? Looking for real solutions, not just "talk to your ex" bc that's obvious lol
Halloween is legitimately hard to split. Does your custody agreement say anything about holidays? Some people do the 'celebrate on the day you have them' rule which would mean kids trick-or-treat with both of you on different nights.