Ex keeps changing pickup times last minute
So my ex texts me Wednesday saying she needs to pick up our daughter an hour earlier on Friday because she has plans. This happens every other week. I've got work stuff scheduled, I can't just drop everything. How do I handle this without being the bad guy? Our custody agreement says 5pm but she acts like it's a suggestion.
That's frustrating as heck. I'd suggest documenting these last-minute requests so you have a record if it ever becomes an issue. Sets a boundary without being confrontational about it.