This is the third time in two weeks. I had to leave work early yesterday because she texted me at 3pm that she needed me to pick up my daughter at 4 instead of 6. I get that life happens but we have a written agreement. Do I need to get the court involved or am I overreacting? Just trying to keep things civil for the kids but it's getting exhausting.
This happens way too often in co-parenting situations. Document these last minute changes if you can - might be useful later and also shows you're trying to be flexible while setting reasonable expectations.
Dude, I feel this in my bones. Last minute changes are the worst because you can't plan anything or be reliable at work. Have you tried sending her a text back asking for 24 hour notice going forward? Might help establish some boundaries.
I feel this in my soul. Last minute changes are stressful when you're trying to manage work and actually be there for your kid. It puts you in an impossible position.
Yeah, that's not okay. Custody agreements exist for a reason. If your custody papers don't have language about notice periods for changes, that might be something to address with your lawyer before it becomes a bigger issue.
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That's rough man. Three times in two weeks is a pattern, not an accident. Have you documented these changes? You might need to have a conversation about how this affects your work situation.