Ex won't communicate through the app
We're supposed to use coparently for all communication but she keeps texting me directly and then bringing up random stuff in person when I pick up the kids. When I ask her to use the app she gets defensive. My lawyer said everything needs to be documented. Am I being unreasonable for pushing this or is she right that I'm being too rigid about it?
The direct texting is a trap. I made that mistake early on. Every time she texts you off the app, respond with "Can you send that through coparently so I have a record?" After a few times most people get the hint. Stay professional, stay consistent.