Ex won't stick to parenting plan for sports pickup
So we agreed I get the kids Tuesday through Thursday and she gets weekends. Soccer practice is Wednesday evenings. I set it up on purpose so she wouldn't have to deal with it. Last month she picked them up early THREE times without asking because she had plans. I asked nicely the first two times. Third time I told her that's not how custody agreements work. Now she's saying I'm being rigid and the kids should come first. But like... I AM putting the kids first. If we ignore the schedule whenever it's convenient suddenly there's no plan at all. How do I address this without sounding like the bad guy?
This is annoying because it messes with the kids' routine too. They don't understand why one parent isn't following the plan. I'd have a calm conversation about it and keep things documented moving forward.