Ex won't stick to the custody schedule
This is my third time writing this because I'm so frustrated. We have a 50/50 arrangement but she keeps texting asking to swap weekends last minute. Half the time it works out but the other half I have plans or the kids get confused about whose house they're at. I've tried being flexible but it's starting to feel like I don't have a real schedule at all. Should I push back or am I being unreasonable?
This is brutal man. You're dealing with the same thing a buddy of mine went through. Document everything, dates and times when she doesn't follow the schedule. If it gets worse you might need to bring it to the court's attention.
I feel this. 50/50 only works if both people are actually on board with it. Have you tried just texting her a clear schedule reminder before each handoff? Sometimes writing it out helps.