Ex Won't Stick to the Schedule - What Are My Options?
This is driving me crazy. We agreed on Tuesday and Friday pickups. She's now canceling or changing the times constantly with like an hour's notice. I get that life happens but I'm trying to plan my work schedule around this and I'm starting to look unreliable to my boss. I don't want to go back to court over this but I'm running out of patience. Our lawyer said I could file a modification but that seems extreme. Has anyone dealt with a similar situation where the other parent just doesn't respect the agreement? How did you handle it?
Document everything man, seriously. Screenshot those texts, keep a log of every cancellation with times. If it keeps happening, that's leverage if you ever need to adjust custody arrangements. Been there with my daughter's mom and having records saved me.