Finally got a consistent communication plan working
Just wanted to share what's been working for us. We started using OurFamilyWizard for all custody stuff and it's a game changer. No more text arguments, everything's documented, and honestly it keeps me from saying stuff I'd regret when I'm frustrated. We also agreed that communication about the kids stays on there. Anything personal or rude gets ignored. It took us both cooling down and hiring a mediator for one session to get here, but man it's made co-parenting so much less stressful. Highly recommend if you're in the thick of it.
OurFamilyWizard is a game changer. We've been using it for about a year now and it took so much stress out of communicating with my ex. Everything's documented, no he said/she said drama.
The documentation part is what really helped us. When we eventually had to go back to court for a modification, having all those messages and records was huge. Definitely worth the subscription.