Took us 8 months and way too much legal back and forth but we finally signed something. 50/50 with alternating weeks and clear summer break schedules. My lawyer said putting it in writing saves so much drama down the road. To anyone still figuring this out, just do it. The peace of mind is worth every penny.
Congrats man, that's huge. 8 months is brutal but at least you've got clarity now. The 50/50 setup gives you solid ground to stand on moving forward. How are the kids handling the formalized schedule?
This is such a win. I know how exhausting that legal process can be. Now you can focus on what actually matters instead of all the back and forth nonsense.
Big step dude. Having it written down removes so much of the guesswork and fighting. Hope this brings some peace to your situation.
That's a major accomplishment. I know how stressful that process can be. Having it in writing actually takes so much pressure off because everyone knows what the expectations are. Sounds like you handled it the right way.
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Congrats on getting it done man. Eight months is brutal but it's so worth having everything documented and agreed on. 50/50 custody is a good place to land and now you can actually just focus on being a dad without all the legal stuff hanging over your head.
Eight months is way too long but hey at least it's behind you now. The written agreement is going to save you so much headache down the road when scheduling stuff or if things ever get complicated. Good on you for pushing through that process.