Finally got a good custody arrangement

1w ago·1 min read

We were fighting for months but we finally got a 50/50 split worked out that actually feels fair. She gets them Mon-Wed, I get them Thu-Sun. It was hard to split the holidays and summer but having a real custody plan has made everything so much easier. No more arguing about pickup times or last minute changes. If anyone is going through the custody negotiation phase right now just know it gets better once you have something solid in writing.

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SSteve M.New Dad1w ago

That's awesome. Now the real challenge starts - keeping it fair and consistent. But honestly if you both agreed it was fair, that's already a win.

MMike C.Regular1w ago

Congrats man, that's huge. Getting to 50/50 that actually feels right for both sides is rare. How long did it take you to get here?

KKevin M.Regular1w ago

That's huge. Getting to a fair split where both parents get real time with the kids is what it's all about. Congrats on getting through the tough negotiations.

CCraigNew Dad1w ago

Congrats on working it out. 50/50 with a clear schedule like that makes life so much better for everyone, especially the kids. You both put in the work and it shows.

RRichardRegular1w ago

This is awesome to hear. Seriously. The fact that it feels fair to you both is what matters most for the kids anyway.