Finally got a real parenting plan in writing
After months of back and forth with lawyers and a mediator, we actually have something official now. Took forever and cost way more than I wanted to spend but honestly it's such a relief to have it all spelled out. No more arguing about who gets what holidays or vague agreements that change whenever she feels like it. If anyone is still dealing with informal arrangements I'd really recommend biting the bullet and getting something on paper.
This is worth celebrating honestly. Going through mediation and getting actual legal paperwork is exhausting but it protects everyone involved, especially your kids. Great job sticking with it.