Finally got custody agreement approved - here's what I learned
Six months of back and forth but we got it done. Wanted to share what helped us actually communicate instead of fight: 1) Use a co-parenting app (we use OurFamilyWizard), 2) Keep conversations about the kids ONLY, 3) Set expectations in writing, 4) Have a lawyer review everything but try to work stuff out first because court is expensive as hell. Don't get me wrong, it still sucks and there are moments I want to lose it. But my kids are happier now that things are stable. Worth the headache.
Congrats on getting that sorted out. Co-parenting agreements are no joke, took us almost a year to get ours finalized. Would definitely be interested in hearing what actually helped you communicate through all that.