Finally got our schedule working and feeling relieved
After months of back and forth, my ex and I settled on 50/50 with alternating weeks. It's not perfect but it's fair and the kids know exactly when they're with each parent. No more confusion about whose house they're sleeping at. We actually sat down and made a shared Google calendar so both of us can see everything. Honestly this is the best thing we could have done. If you're still fighting about schedules, just get it on paper and stick to it.
Alternating weeks is solid. I do the same setup and it lets me actually plan stuff with the kids instead of juggling pickups all week. Glad you two found something that works.