Finally got through to her about the communication thing

1w ago1 min read

Been a rough 8 months since the split but my ex and I sat down last night and agreed to use that coparenting app to handle all the scheduling stuff. No more passive aggressive texts about pickup times. Sounds small but honestly this feels like a real breakthrough. Kids seem less stressed already when they're not hearing us bicker. Thought I'd never see the day but we're actually doing this right.

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Comments(9)

CChristopherNew Dad1w ago

That's a real milestone right there. Not just for you and your ex but for your child. Kids can sense when the tension drops and they actually feel safer. Good on you both for making this happen.

PPhil M.Regular1w ago

The fact that you're both willing to do this work says a lot. I know couples who've been split for years and never figure this out. Your kid is lucky.

DDerekRegular1w ago

This is the real win right here. Communication is everything when you're coparenting. Glad you guys got to a point where you could sit down and actually work something out. The kids feel that shift too, trust me.

DDerek P.Regular1w ago

Getting on the same page about communication is everything. My three kids are spread between two houses now, and that coparenting app honestly changed the game for us. Good on you for pushing through to make it happen.

HHank L.Regular1w ago

That's huge, man. Eight months is a long time to carry that stress. Using an app takes the back and forth out of it and keeps things professional, which honestly makes co-parenting so much easier.

TTony M.Regular1w ago

This is huge. Seriously. The co-parenting app or shared system is probably the best decision you two could make right now. Keeps things civil and actually helps both of you stay on the same page for your kid.

DDaniel R.Regular1w ago

Props to you both for making that happen. A lot of people stay stuck in the anger phase for way longer. Using an app to communicate takes the personal stuff out of logistics which is exactly what you need. Your kids are lucky you figured this out.

BBrandonRegular1w ago

Eight months to get there is actually pretty reasonable. You two are prioritizing your kid which is what matters. Communication changes everything. Make sure you both stick with the system though - consistency is key.

RRyanNew Dad1w ago

That's huge. Eight months is a long time to be in conflict, especially with kids in the middle. Using that coparenting app is smart because it keeps everything documented and takes the emotion out of it. Good move by both of you.