We've been separated for 6 months and things are finally getting official. I want to see my kids as much as possible but I also want this to be easy on them. Does anyone have experience with a mediator? Like should I expect the process to be super adversarial or can it actually be civil? My ex and I get along okay, we just couldn't make the marriage work. Any advice would help.
That anxiety is totally normal, but the fact that you're thinking about what's easy for everyone involved says a lot about what kind of dad you are. Good luck next week.
Mediation can feel heavy, but you've got the right mindset going in. Wanting to see your kids while keeping things civil will serve you well. You got this.
That's a big step and it's okay to feel anxious about it. Just remember to stay calm in the room and focus on what's best for the kids, not what feels fair to you. That mindset helps a lot.
Mediation is tough but it's usually better than fighting it out in court. The anxiety is normal but going in prepared with what you actually want helps. Are you working with a lawyer or going in solo?
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You've got this. Six months in is actually a reasonable timeline to get things officially sorted. Having a solid plan going in makes the whole thing less painful. Good luck with it.