Honest rant: 50/50 is harder than I expected

Everyone sold me on how great 50/50 is. Equal time, no child support weirdness, fair to everyone. But honestly? It's exhausting. My 11yo has his stuff split between two houses, I'm constantly reorganizing my work schedule, and Tuesday nights I'm making the SAME dinner I made Monday because we had just restocked my kitchen.

Also my ex and I parent SO differently (she's stricter, I'm more lenient) and the kids play us against each other constantly. Just needed to vent. This isn't sustainable long term.