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How do you handle communication with your ex without it turning into a fight?

1w ago·1 min read

Every time we text about the kids, it somehow becomes about something else and we end up arguing. We've been divorced for 2 years now but still can't seem to just keep it about logistics. I try to stay neutral and just ask about pickup times or what the kids ate but somehow it spirals. Any tips on keeping conversations focused and civil? Using an app, sticking to certain topics, scheduling specific times to talk?

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LLeo R.New Dad1w ago

Man, I've been there. We switched to a co-parenting app called OurFamilyWizard where all communication is about the kids only - no room for old arguments to creep in. Game changer for us.

IIan P.Regular1w ago

Two years in and still struggling is totally normal, don't beat yourself up. Having a neutral third party like a mediator or therapist can help you both figure out why these convos go sideways.

FFrank T.Regular1w ago

Stick to the facts and keep it short. I learned the hard way that longer texts just give more chances for misunderstandings. Something like 'Sarah needs cleats by Friday' works way better than trying to explain why.