How do you handle your ex dating someone new?
My ex has been seeing someone for a couple months and the kids mentioned meeting him last week. I'm trying to be mature about it but it bothers me more than I expected. Not because I want her back or anything, just feels weird. How long should she wait before introducing someone to the kids? Is there an unwritten rule about this? Looking for some perspective from guys who've been through it.
This is rough. The kids meeting him already happened so now it's about managing your feelings about it, which is different from controlling the situation. How are the kids reacting to him? That matters more than your comfort level honestly.
Did she talk to you first before letting them meet him or did they just mention it? That's the piece that would bother me more than the dating part.